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Still Falling into the Gap

Posted April 23, 2007 By Pattie Gillett

A quick follow-up to my earlier post which cited stats on the continuing wage gap between men and women, the Associated Press has an article citing a study which shows that the wage gap between equally qualified male and female college-educated workers is evident as early as one year after college and continues to widen over time.

The study, released by the American Association of University Women, found that the women earn 80% of what their male counterparts earn one year after college and 69% of what the men earn ten years after college. Ouch! Moreover, the salaries that women often receive do not reflect their academic acheivements.

Women have slightly higher grade point averages than men in every major, including science and math. But women who attend highly selective colleges earn the same as men who attend minimally selective colleges, according to the study.

Double ouch.

So, the message here is: work hard, study, go tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars into debt to attend an elite school and, Jane, someday you might be able to do the same job as Dick and get paid 30% less.

I visited the organization’s site to check the data and found that they are sponsoring an event called Equal Pay Day for tomorrow, April 24. I really wish I had known about this earlier but it’s still worth looking through the activity guide and checking out the resources. Most are good advice/grassroots action items that can be done anytime. We certainly don’t need a special day to sharpen our salary negotiating skills or help promote financial literacy among the people in our lives, male or female.

I reiterate, this is a topic that’s just screaming for a presidential candidate to make a key part of their platform.

A Joyful Noise

Posted April 20, 2007 By Pattie Gillett

Milestones in your child’s life, like most of the parenting experience, often come with a mixed bag of emotions. The one our daughter reached this week is no exception.

One one hand, Alex turned five, certainly a milestone birthday in her mind and ours. We celebrated by taking her to Hershey, PA, specifically the Hershey’s Chocolate World Tour. To say that she enjoyed it is a understatement. She exhibited the kind of joy that we adults seem to lose somewhere around puberty in that she literally shook with excitement. And not just from the chocolate high, either. Even when recounting the trip to her grandma the following day, she was unable to keep her body still for more than a nano-second. She also couldn’t get the words out fast enough to describe it. She was loud, rambling and joyful in way that just stamps down your parental instinct to say “shushâ€? and “use your inside voice.â€? In the end, we just let her go because when your child is exhibiting that kind of excitement and happiness, you really don’t want it to end.

On the other hand, Alex is now five, which means she’ll be leaving the very fine day care facility she currently attends to go to kindergarten in the fall and with that comes an entire host of problems. Choosing a school (which will be the subject of another post, I assure you), navigating the various registration and waiting list pitfalls, and then, finding out that our school options may not offer “extended careâ€? for the hours before and after school when our jobs require us to be someplace other than with Alex. And lets not even get into the cost of these extended care programs when they are available. The entire task is so daunting that I found myself trying to relive the experiences of the previous weekend in my head to remind myself of why we’re doing it all. The answer comes readily: for Alex. We can’t be everywhere at once. We need to provide food, shelter, and health care for her so if finding a school with an extended day care program that covers our working hours takes a pick axe and spelunking helmet, so be it. It needs to be done.

And, the fact is, we’re among the lucky ones. The jobs that Dave and I have provide Alex with health care, money to cover our mortgage, food and clothing, funds for day care and we thankfully still have enough non-working time to actually be parents. Not everyone is so lucky. Millions of parents in this country work long hours to meet the needs of their children and can still come up short. I was reminded of this fact during this same week.

In between driving to open houses, calling schools to ask about extended care, and filling out registration forms, I found myself listening to a radio interview with Kristin Rowe-Finkbeiner, co-founder of Moms Rising, an advocacy group for such “mom� issues as affordable health care, longer and more comprehensive family leave, workplace rights, higher-wages etc. Some of the statistics she cited which caught my ear as I drove to work included:

  • The National Center for Children in Poverty reports that 28 million children in this country are growing up in low-income families. More than 81% of them have at least one working parent whose income is simply not sufficient.
  • The U.S. is one of only five countries of 168 studied that doesn’t mandate some form of paid maternal leave, putting us on par with Papua New Guinea, Lesotho, and Swaziland.
  • A recent study found non-mothers in the U.S. made 90 cents to a man’s dollar, moms made 73 cents to the dollar, and single moms made 56 to 66 cents to a man’s dollar. A study of hiring practices for high wage jobs in 2005 found mothers were offered $11,000 lower starting salaries than equally qualified non-mothers.
  • Statistics from 2001 reveal that a full one-quarter of U.S. families with children under age six earned less than $25,000.
  • More than 40,000 kindergarteners in this country are home alone after school. More than 14,000,000 kindergarteners through twelfth grade kids are on their own after school without supervision.
  • And yes, I did have to pull over and catch my breath after I heard those last ones.

    While I’m not sure I know enough about Moms Rising to endorse them unequivocally, I have to admire their mission. And if it succeeds, the potential is mind-boggling. It’s not simply aiming to be Soccer Moms 2.0. We’re talking less catchy demographic description, and more full-fledged Parental PAC. Our system allows for anyone with an issue, cause, or special interest to try and make their voice heard, for better or for worse. The ones with the deepest pockets are often the loudest, unfortunately. But, every once in a while, with the right coordination and savvy, the weaker succeed by just getting louder.

    And, I ask you, who knows more about volume than parents?

    Parents need to get louder about issues such as affordable heath and child care, education, flexible work schedules, and paid family leave. There are now simply too many social, economic and legal obstacles to being a good parent these days for us not to be as loud as we can be. Too many parents are too bogged down in the realities of simply surviving to provide their children the kind of body-shaking joyful moments that all children deserve to have and all parents deserve to see.

    These days there are a lot of people running around asking to be president. Hang out on YouTube for a while and you can’t miss ’em. Anyway, they’ve all got a lot of special interest groups vying for their attention and they in turn are vying for voters’ attention. They also know that working adults with children under the age of 18 constitute one heck of a voting block.

    What better time to show them what happens when parents stop using their inside voices?

    Now it makes sense… Sort of

    Posted October 6, 2006 By Pattie Gillett

    So much has been written about the horrible killings of Amish schoolgirls in Lancaster County, PA this week, I wasn’t sure if we could add anything to the discussion. There are only so many ways to say “senseless” after all.

    Then I came across this story:

    The Pocono Record reports that monies are pouring in from all over the world to help the families of victims pay for that most visceral of modern “conveniences” – high hospital bills. Several paragraphs down in the story, you’ll find that the victims’ families were not only reluctant in accepting the money, they also insisted that similar funds be set up for the shooter’s children. This corresponds with earlier accounts that Amish community elders visited Roberts’ wife on the very day of the shootings to tell her that they forgave her husband for what he did.

    That kind of foregiveness and compassion for those who would hurt you, who have hurt you, is unheard of in these times.

    It sort of makes you understand, in a way, why the Amish separate themselves from our world in the first place.

    Caught Napping … and Profiting

    Posted July 29, 2006 By Pattie Gillett

    I heard about this one on NPR and I had to find out more about it on my own.

    There’s a company (and by now, I’ll guess there’s at least one) that has tapped into a market dominated once by nursery school children and their teachers: Napping. That’s right, as a nation, we are so damn sleep deprived that MetroNaps believes it can make a fortune by giving us all a place to nap for twenty minutes or so.

    They’re willing to let us nap anywhere: at work, in school, in airports, or at their franchised storefronts in North America and Europe. Frankly, they don’t care where we nap, so long as we do it in one of their state-of-the art napping pods. Aside from the franshised locations, they’re willing to lease out these pods to businesses and airports so employers can create their own napping rooms for their weary workforces. They’ve got lots of science on their site touting the increased productivity that comes from napping not to mention the dangers of overtired people driving, operating machinery, and blogging (OK, maybe not blogging).

    As the parent of a young child, who works full-time, and goes to school one to two nights a week, all I can say is this: do you take VISA?

    As a matter of fact they do. Napping passes start at $14 but volume discounts are available. MetroNaps claims busines is booming but a similar enterprise by another company recently failed at the Mall of America, although that company later claimed the ratio of tourists made that site a poor location. MetroNaps has its sights set on locations like NYC’s financial district, where they believe the walking weary are in abundant supply.

    Note to Vanity Fair…

    Posted May 27, 2006 By Pattie Gillett

    …if you’re still looking for irony, you might soon be able to major in it at the University of Missouri. According to this article over at Time, the school’s most recently convicted alumnus has been trying to take back a $1 million donation he made to the business school to endow an Economics chair in his name, claiming he wanted to donate the funds to Katrina relief instead.

    For various reason, including fears that Lay was trying to improve his standing in the potential jury pool, the university flatly stated “no backsies.”

    Meanwhile, other alumni are still a bit standoffish about the idea of listing the Kenneth Lay Chair in Economics among the institution’s assets.

    One possible solution, however, deserves some kudos and perhaps the attention of the magazine that some time ago wondered where the irony had gone in these troubled times. The suggestion is to rename the position and hope that whoever fills the “Kenneth Lay Chair of Economics and Business Ethics” has a sense of humor. A conscience wouldn’t hurt either.

    Pattie’s Pop Culture Obsessions

    Posted January 29, 2006 By Pattie Gillett

    I’ll admit, this topic of this post is ripped off from a similar blog at Bravotv.com (which is, in itself, one of my current obsessions). This list is a random collection of stuff I’m fascinated with these days. As Dave will attest, when something fascinates me, the people around me have no other choice than to become fascinated with it as well…this now includes you guys, sorry!

    Bravo’s Project Runway (Season 2) – I know very little about fashion, less about design, and my sewing skills are so low they might as well be rated by negative numbers. Still, this show featuring supermodels, wannabe superstar designers, and arcane fashion jargon has replaced Law and Order as my essential Wednesday night viewing. (What’s the difference, I can just catch the L&O shows I miss, or ones that are eeerily similar to them, later, on any of twenty cable channels.) I’m not going to be one of these people who swears they don’t watch any other reality TV because I have been known to sit through episodes of Survivor, The Amazing Race, and The Real World. Reality TV can be fun, if done well. But even when it’s done poorly, it’s hard to turn it off!

    What sets Project Runway apart for me is at the end of the day, the competition is (mostly) about talent and creativity. Yes, there’s some drama, yes, there are male and female divas-aplenty but it’s still fun to watch. One of the things I like best is that there’s very little attempt to distinguish the designer from their design. Everyone is very frank about how much of themselves they put in their work. Having worked in business for close to ten years and been told repeatedly “it’s not personal, it’s just business� it’s refreshing to see that there is a flipside out there somewhere, even if it’s not my field. My take has always been that if you did it, and worked hard on it, it is personal, no matter what it is. Call me crazy, but the more I think the more you separate yourself from what you do, the less successful and rewarding that work is. Fine, maybe I am crazy.

    The Olympics – They opening ceremonies are just days away (as I write this) and you can feel the anticipation in the Gillett-Thomer household. We are Olympic junkies, especially for the Winter Games. We’re also geeks but you knew that already. In the summer games, you can see quite clearly how most of the sports connect to the human experience: swimming, running, even archery. In the winter games, the connection is not always so clear. I mean, I doubt the Scottish highlanders invented curling as a means of survival. And figure skating? Unless someone comes forth with irrefutable proof that triple salchows were the only way for our ancestors to escape hungry Alpine bears, I’m standing by my assessment that this sport is as much about sex appeal as it is about athleticism. Dave will no doubt protest me calling figure skating a sport but hey, it wouldn’t be an Olympic year if he didn’t.

    Many of the winter games seem to have been created out of boredom than real need for human survival, which is what makes them so darn entertaining. And for those of us at home, it is just that, entertainment. Yes the Olympics themselves are about athleticism, but they are as much about pageantry, hence the multi-million dollar opening and closing ceremonies. They’re also about making money, hence the billion dollar sponsorship deals. Still, I love my figure skating (and speed skating, and ski-jump) and Dave loves his curling. I’ll be watching as much of the 16-day extravaganza as I can. Mostly to see if any Alpine bears show up.

    Enron, The Smartest Guys in the Room – Being a business grad student and resident of planet Earth, I was certainly aware of the accounting scandal that this documentary, and the book it was based on, chronicled. But, as with many things following the birth if my daughter, the details were a little fuzzy. I have heard that this documentary was good so I decided to pop it in my DVD player one quiet afternoon. The afternoon didn’t stay quiet for very long because I was soon shouting at my TV. To me, what happened here is truly human nature at its worst. Between what I always knew about Enron’s execs, and evidence brought forth in this documentary, I have to wonder how Skilling, Lay and company plan to survive their upcoming trials. I’m not speaking metaphorically, either. They must live in constant fear that some devastated ex-Enron employee or family member is simply going to exact their own form of justice one way or another. To quote a dear friend of mine, who is often mortified at the sheer callousness of human beings, “one Hell cannot possibly be big enough� to house people who do things like this.

    But back to the documentary, it’s the rare non-fiction film work that can create kind of drama about a story you more or less already know. Armed with music, striking imagery, tasteful re-enactments, and some stunning pieces of evidence, the creators did just that.
    Obviously, I have my own opinions about the guilt and innocence of the principals in this case; it’s almost impossible not to. However, there are those, even among the filmmakers, who do see a difference between criminal culpability and moral culpability. Is there one? Rent or buy this DVD and decide for yourself.

    Sherlock Holmes – Santa was kind to me this year and brought me The Complete Sherlock Holmes in a single collected edition. I’ve decided, after re-reading the first few Holmes tales, that I will try to reread most of the books that I really enjoyed when I was in my teens and early twenties now, as I creep ever nearer to the big 3-0. When I first read Doyle, I was blown away by the details of each mystery and focused almost entirely on those aspects. I missed a great deal of Doyle’s character development, wit and detail the first time around, perhaps because I was too impatient, too naïve, or too preoccupied with term papers the first time around. Now, I truly am reading it for fun. Of course, now I need to fit in my leisure reading around finger painting and episodes of Dora the Explorer but you see my point.
    In the ensuing years, I’ve become familiar with several Hollywood versions of Holmes, some brilliant (Jeremy Brett), some questionable (Rupert Everett), but none really equals picking p the books and reading them, or rather, re-reading them, for myself.

    Home Improvements – Replacement windows, repainting, new doors, new rugs, refinishing the floors, retiling…the homeowners’ work is never done. No, really, it’s NEVER done. One of the joys of owning a home is that you get to choose the renovations and improvements that you make. One of the problems of home-ownership is that you have to pay for the renovations and improvements that you make. Every once and while, though, Uncle Sam cuts you a break on the costs of your home renovations, which is probably how most ever happen at all. Let’s face it, a large percentage of homeowners are probably as motivated by this stuff as I am. Which is why I tend to want to make improvements in large bursts of activity; these bursts are then followed by long periods of inactivity during which I watch television and read mystery books while the house creaks beneath me.

    Uummm…Olympic Medal…

    Posted November 30, 2005 By Pattie Gillett

    The medal design for the 2006 Turin Winter Olympic games has been unveiled and they’re looking very…Homer Simpson-friendly. There is a reason for the design, it seems. Something about an open piazza or town square. Center of Italian village life, etc. O-kay. You know how seriously Italians take design so I guess we should have seen this coming.

    I’m also guessing that they are going to blow Greece out of the water with the amount of bizarre artistic imagery they can cram in the opening ceremonies. Brace yourself, Costas.

    So Long As We Get the Words Right…

    Posted November 29, 2005 By Pattie Gillett

    Thousands of dead soldiers and Iraqi civilians, billions of dollars in war debt, no clear exit strategy and no clear indication that we have done anything but further destabilize the region…but let’s quibble over words, shall we?

    Forget Black Friday, I’m All About Cyber Monday

    Posted November 28, 2005 By Pattie Gillett

    “Cyber Monday”

    It has a name. That is so awesome.

    Of course we all know that employees surf the net when they are supposed to be working. They blog, they game, they IM, and they shop.

    In fact, they – or should I say, we – shop so much and with such brazen disregard for our employers’ overtaxed high speed connections that we have actually earned a cool moniker not to mention a measurable impact on the holiday shopping season.

    For those of you who don’t know, Cyber Monday is the first day back day after Thanksgiving for most Americans, a day on which workers hijack company-provided net connections to shop for the goodies family members told us they could not live without over the Thanksgiving Turkey. But Cyber Monday people are the folks who decided to sleep in on Black Friday rather than trample someone’s Aunt Rose over a DVD player. Instead Cyber Monday people shove their spreadsheets to the other side of the desk and spend a good part of the day hopping from Amazon to Lands End to Old Navy.

    Cyber Monday is obviously a new phenomenon but it’s growing. Retailers are starting to bank on this day nearly as much as they bank on Black Friday. Well, if there’s anything I would bet on, it’s bored office workers looking for a way to blow worktime. Seems like a a no-brainer to me.

    Me, I’m a cyber person, although I did not do my shopping at work today (my employer actually tracks net usage). I’ll tackle my shopping over the next few days, most of it online, though some things will require a trip to the…mall…yuck. I hate brick and mortar shopping around the holidays. Hate the crowds, hate parking, hate food courts, everything. That’s just the way I am made, and, apparently, many people agree with me. All I can say is here’s to many more years of sleeping late on Black Friday and free shipping deals on Cyber Monday.

    Of course the question remains, did anyone get any work done today?

    Outrage, Then Victory Over Lawmaker Greed

    Posted November 6, 2005 By Pattie Gillett

    For once, voter apathy didn’t doom us to be subject to the whims of our lawmakers. Pennsylvania’s legislators, who set the world land speed record for greed several months ago by voting themselves a disgusting pay raise in the middle of the night after cutting funds to education, child care and other programs, finally faced the music and repealed the damn thing. You know why? Because it turns out the voters really did care.

    This is a victory that comes about in large part because of the state’s newspapers. From the Philadelphia Inquirer to the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette and everywhere in between, editorial pages would not let the issue die and the public responded. I applaud the efforts of the media and hope they get the credit they deserve for keeping the issue in the public consciousness.

    And now the obvious question: How do we harness this kind of power for more issues?